Tuesday, 21 July 2009

Dear Deirdre from Sun genuine response to 'lonesome letters from a longing heart'

Hi Ryan, thanks for emailing. I’m glad you got in touch and I hope I can help you.

I’m sorry to hear about this situation and I do understand how you feel. I can understand how difficult it is for you to know what to do for the best.

If you tell him how you feel and he isn’t interested in you in that way, you could end up feeling very disappointed and it’s possible that it would change the friendship between you.

If you don’t want to leave things as they are, though, why not try to develop the friendship with him, by keeping in touch online while he is away and see if it changes anything. If nothing comes of it, then it may be best for you to look further afield for someone who does want a relationship with you.

Don’t put all your eggs in one basket with thoughts of this one guy, keep your social life going and meet lots of other people too. I’m attaching my leaflet Learning about Relationships as it explains how good relationships are formed, and I hope it will help you.

All the best

Deidre

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